Do not try to please those who do not like you.

If we could look at ourselves from the outside, we would certainly feel ashamed of our daily behavior, one of which is the insistence that we persist in nurturing the wrong people. We waste a lot of time waiting to happen what will never happen and waiting for the return of someone who does not even remember our existence.

Creating expectations is good, to a certain extent, since they fuel our hopes, our dreams of life, urging us to continue, not to give up. Expecting the best that comes and the people fill us with positive energy that protects us in the painfully abrupt twists that life gives. It is necessary to hope, to positivize, to optimize, to have faith, but, a little of reason must always be permeating all this.

Anything that exacerbates the limits of reasonability turns out to be fruitless in all walks of life. In this sense, one of the greatest favors we will do to ourselves is to become aware that it is useless to want to be loved by everyone. No one welcomes unanimously, simply because each person has their own expectations, that is, much of what we offer does not meet the expectations of several people.

Free yourself from the need to be loved by all, this is utopia. To try to achieve this, you will have to wear several masks a day, depending on the environment in which you are. It will take a constant theatrical stage, as it moves farther and farther from its essence, its truths, from what nourishes its heart. Learn to deal with your imperfections, with your limitations, with your humanity. That is how we are enough.

What is false does not convince, what is forced does not please, what is false does not hold. Pretending to disguise will only keep you from keeping those who love who you really were and who are no longer to please everyone. But if you want to end up alone and frustrated, keep trying to please those who do not like you. Never fails.